Lets talk
about sex….
Miami, Fl
May 8, 2012
This will be
an open Chat question anyone is allowed to put up there answer.
Question of
the day is,
What do you think
about pre- marital sex?
I hope you guys answer.. I will put in my two cents soon.
sincerely
C.
Premarital sex is the norm today. Let's face it, nobody likes to play the waiting game!! I think that if the couple is at a mature stage in their relationship and ready to have sex, then why not!! There are people who have a strong Catholic/Christian faith and for those extreme pious people who do not believe in sex before marriage then great! I honestly think, that premarital sex is okay so as long as the couple is ready to undertake the consequences associated with marital sex. I do believe that most sexual relationships outside of marriage don't last. I would rather be married to a man who truly loves me before giving in to him, than to a boyfriend who just wants a piece of me. The old saying still goes.. "Why buy the cow when the milk's free?" Unfortunatly we live in a tempting world where sex sells and chastity is laughed at, so of course its the norm. 85% of Americans believe in premarital sex (Good thing the Vatican isn't in the US, hugh)!
ReplyDeleteIs premarital sex right? I think it depends on the morals and values of the couple and their families. There is no right or wrong answer here. I am confident that waiting to have sex until after marriage would lower divorce, STD and abortion rates! Is playing the waiting game for everyone? Clearly not! Everyone is different. For me at least, I am in a serious relationship and am marrying my fiance in September. Sex before marriage is right for us We know exactly what we are marrying into, both emotionally and physically. Imagine marrying someone and having sex for the first time your wedding night and realizing that you do not feel a sexual attraction or connection with your spouse. That would be aweful! You aren't going to buy a car you aren't going to test drive, right? It's the same thing. I think sex is really important in a relationship, although its NOT everything. So premarital sex is okay for me. Is it for you?
In my opinion, every couple/relationship is different . What ever your priorities are in your relationship and they work. Awesome! Keep it up! Like Kristen said there is no right or wrong answer. This is what I think about pre-marital sex: during pre-marital sex, one is treating the partner like an object of pleasure, rather than an object of love. Rather than using sex for its wondrous purpose, which is a special unity that offers the possibility for the creation of life, we (society) have detached that purpose, and use it solely for pleasure. It is meant to be unique bond that strengthens the family unit, rather than fracturing it through promiscuity. By giving into lust, a couple is exploiting each other for selfish purposes, even if the bond of love is there. Now a days society are in a rush for everything. Individual(s) want everything right away. We live in a fast pace society; children want to be teenagers, teenagers want to be adults, elderly don’t want to age and believe that they are young. The mentality of men is that they have “needs” that have be satisfied one way or the other. Marriage is a word that is vague and is disappearing little by little. For me, why is pre-marital sex not acceptable? It could lead to the creation of a child with a family completely unprepared to raise, it can transmit disease, it is selfish, it provides a mentality for divorce and lack of commitment, it is exploitative, it undermines the definition of marriage, and is the misuse of a hugely unique gift from God.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with the views from Kristin and the other person. We live in such a different generation than before. Now a days SEX is very important in a relationship than before, I may be wrong! I think if a couple understand each other and are mature enough than pre-marital sex is ok. It all depends on the couple. I would say if you're going to have pre-marital sex, take care of yourself protect yourself from getting pregnant and as well as any transmitted diseases.
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